Ambitious people who are driven to succeed probably give serious thought as to how they can perform at their highest level. Indeed, the subject of How to Achieve is complicated and multi-faceted. We recently talked about the defining characteristic of a person’s value...
A Secret To Success Hiding In Plain Sight
There’s a question that everyone can (and should) ask about professional success: What is the most important skill I need to develop to excel in my work? The great thing about this question is that applies in a wide variety of situations. When a young person is just...
Wonderful Conversations Begin Like This
Isn’t it great to sit down with your spouse or partner in the evening and talk about everything that’s happened that day? Or maybe meet an old friend for a cup of coffee or a drink and catch up on the news from old friends? One of the magical things about those...
Networking And The Power Of A Question
Acting intuitively is something that almost everyone does, especially in certain situations. Take meeting a new person at work, for example. Or approaching someone you don’t know at a cocktail party. Or greeting someone on the patio after a worship service. Most...
Turning Points – Understanding The Decision-Making Process
Reaching a turning point in life is almost always a combination of exhilaration and anxiety. You know there are going to be consequences to whatever decision you make and you want to make sure you get it right. That’s why many people, when confronting an obvious major...
What ADHD Looks Like In Adulthood
Medical disorders come in all sizes and shapes. People unfamiliar with a particular disorder may only be vaguely aware of causes, symptoms and treatments. Attention-deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), for example, receives a fair amount of attention in the news....
Great Leaders Are Made, Not Born
High school and college kids spend a lot of time thinking about majors they’d like to pursue and ultimately about a lifetime vocation or profession. There’s a lot to consider. You have to reflect on what you are truly passionate about. Then there is the issue of...
Using Questions To Help Raise Your Kids
As any parent can tell you, raising kids is an adventure. Watching them turn from infants to toddlers to children interacting with their friends is magical. Along the way, of course, kids need a lot of guidance: learning to share, respect others and observe boundaries...
Cognitive Bias In The Internet Age
In our sports-crazed world it’s easy to find people who practically live and die by their team’s victories and defeats. If you ask them who the best team in the league is, or who their favorite athlete is, no surprise! It’s their home team and their team’s superstar....
How Resilient Kids Become Healthy Adults
The old Japanese proverb says Fall down seven times, stand up eight. As with so many proverbs there is a lot of wisdom packed into a simple phrase. As anyone who has endured a series of misfortunes can tell you, resilience is the key to not only maintaining mental...