Real-Life Rules For A Successful Marriage

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc.  Let’s take a show of hands — how long were you in a romantic relationship before you realized that keeping things upbeat required a little work? A couple months? Six months? A...

Red Flags, Jealousy and More in a Relationship

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. Since time immemorial the poets have told us a simple truth: Love is blind. Scientists, with their modern sensibilities, give us the reason for the poetic insight: infatuation...

The Most Common Reasons Relationships Fail.

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. Lewis Howes is a bestselling author who uses a variety of media channels to deliver his message: You Were Born For Greatness. Psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther...

Word of the Year – Gaslighting

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. Have you ever unfriended someone? If so, you were taking action on Oxford Language’s 2009 Word of the Year: Unfriend. Or maybe you’ve included an animated graphic in a...

Is Lying An Art?

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. In day-to-day life we probably go about our business trying to be a pretty decent person. By the time we reach a basic level of maturity associated with adulthood we don’t...

Is Marital Hatred An Oxymoron? Or Normal?

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. You want to stir up the conversation at your next dinner party? Try throwing out the term “normal marital hatred.” What? Hating your spouse or partner is normal? Anyone who has...

I vs. We In A Healthy Relationship

Marriage Counseling Insights brought to you by California Psychotherapeutic Resources, Inc. Most people have (or should have) a pretty well-developed sense of self before they enter a romantic relationship. A strong sense of identity and a balanced ego are foundations...