There’s an old saying: Grief is the price we pay for love. This simple statement reflects the reality that loss is inevitable. The only tragedy would be if you never loved anyone and so never had to endure their loss. Because grief is a virtually universal human...
Who’s Really In Control Here?
The “feel good” hormones that we’ve discussed in previous blogs can have wonderful benefits for your mental and even physical health. (See The Virtuous Cycle of Feel-Good Hormones.) But, as we also touched upon, hormones do not function according to a value system —...
What’s Behind That Drive For Perfection?
People in therapy are often exposed to the idea of attachment theory. Research has been accumulating about this idea since the 1930s, so it’s hardly a new concept. Basically, it’s an attempt to explain how our childhood affects our relationships as adults. It...
The Virtuous Circle Of Feel-Good Hormones
Understanding how hormones affect our physical and mental health is important because there are things that we can do to influence our brain’s production of hormones — not control, but at least influence. In a previous blog (Hormones, The Runner’s High And More) we...
Hormones, The Runner’s High And More
Most people have heard of and probably have a pretty good understanding of how hormones affect your mood. But brushing up on the role that several important hormones play can be valuable because hormones not only affect how you feel — they affect how your body...
Yes, Money Can Buy Happiness — If…
Everyone knows that you can’t buy happiness. But is what everyone knows true? Can you buy happiness? While traditional maxims and proverbs might make black-and-white statements about money and happiness, scientific research — as it often does — introduces shades of...
Feeling Burnt Out? Here’s What To Do About It.
It seems like every day some tech company announces a new product that’s going to make our lives easier, our work more efficient, our spare time more enjoyable. Sure — then why do so many of us feel overworked, overextended and plain old burnt out? How did...
Can You Control Outcomes?
Young people learn countless lessons as they grow up. In the sports they enjoy, in the various subjects they study in school, in the hobbies they develop a passion for, they discover what they love and what they excel at. But, ah, that subject of “excelling” — that’s...
Turning Setbacks Into Success
There’s an old expression that metaphorically captures the essence of resilience: Dancing between the raindrops. It describes someone who persists even as the storm clouds gather, someone who seemingly dodges the raindrops and keeps a light heart despite adversity. Of...
The Keys To Cultivating Better Business Relationships
Every small business owner understands the importance of networking. It’s not only valuable for attracting new customers or clients. It’s fundamentally important to create a network of individuals and businesses that you can turn to for expertise and advice. But what...